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May 16, 1:31 pm

How to handle mismatched sexual desires
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Friday 16 May 2025


Dear reader,

Welcome to the new Psyche! I’m delighted to announce that we’re relaunching with a revitalised mission, a fresh design and exciting new content types.

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How to handle a mismatch in sexual desire

A difference in sexual appetite is a common source of tension for couples. Don’t ignore it – turn toward it with curiosity

by Ann O’Brien

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Rituals and celebrations

If no one makes an effort on my birthday, does it actually happen?

by Margarita Gokun Silver

Life Story

Communication and languagE

Small talk is an art, not a triviality. Here’s how you can master it

Directed by Erik Scanlon

The ordinary purposes that make up our lives are very much worth making our life’s work

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Neuroscience

There are three lenses through which to weigh any decision

by Clara Pretus and Jay Van Bavel

Idea

GOALS AND MOTIVATION

What you can learn from the runner’s ‘pain cave’

by Richard Fisher

 
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